Maeve

 

She’s cute/pretty. She’s young, bubbly, charming, smart, ambitious. She may have many great qualities that I don’t possess. For me personally, I just never felt that she was a good fit for you. I picture her more like this picture, underneath a sweet and charming facade. Her fellow witch friends may view her as a total rock star. I personally don’t view her highly or as a good match for the person that I have believed you to be. 

I can imagine you thinking her witchy nods and references as exciting and sexy banter. They added an edgy and novel layer to your relationship and your bedroom adventures. When L made mention of witchcraft, I don’t think you understood the reality and the gravity of that. Unless you knew what she was capable of and were  “all in” for it, you couldn’t see for the longest time, how much she screwed up your life.

However, at this point, it appears that, on the surface, you got everything you wanted in life. You have a successful practice in Santa Cruz, living with a beach view, comfortably amongst your family and age old friends. There is absolutely no visible evidence of suffering or dissatisfaction with your marriage and life. Maybe I am dead wrong to question the situation, because you think everything is perfect. Your wife is perfect. You are confident that you made all the right decisions in life. If that is the case, I wish you well and I wish you luck with her. It looks like you won’t be going anywhere anyway, whether you like it or not.