Hating on you again and thinking too deeply about you.

Your tragic flaw is that you are spoiled and when you want something, you will do whatever it takes, to get it. You were raised to think hexing people and using magical manipulation to get things/keep things was ok. No one would ever know what you were doing anyway, so there would be no retaliation or punishment.  If no one knew what caused the event that screwed them over, you were safe. There may not be a specific law, that has been created yet to spell it out to you, but how law enforcement will handle this, you will soon find out.

My tragic flaws are that one,  I am extremely pessimistic. I don’t view myself too highly. There is a limit to what I will shoot for. I also hate feeling the jealousy of people around me. My jealousy avoidance is to such an extreme, that I have purposely tried to dim my light throughout my life. I dread being in your shoes. With too cute of a husband who is so friendly, gregarious, and fun, that women always notice him and flirt with him. 

I judge forward, outgoing women, for approaching men, but that tactic worked for you. Be friendly. Be curious. Be brave. Ask him a question. Pay him a compliment. Shoot your shot. It worked for you.

I have a very superficial obsession with your husband. I know nothing about him. I think he’s handsome. I love blondes.  I know he’s a doctor and he keeps driving past me.  That’s it! I have always been flattered by his low key, harmless, obsession and stalking of me. Call me crazy! After all these years, he still travels down to Carlsbad to see me? To look at me? He gets some sort of enjoyment, when I look back at him excitedly. He wants to feel that I appreciate what he is doing, that I am equally attracted to him, and seemingly reciprocating his feelings. He has been stringing me along for so many years and I still get messed up and hopeful, every time I see him again. I am always waiting around and ultimately disappointed. It sucks!

Of course, I wonder what you are doing to keep him with you. You do the same thing to him, that he does to me. You stalk him. You zeroed in on him and did some stalkerish things, like spying and love spells. Maybe he is just oblivious. Maybe he doesn’t care that you are a witch? Maybe he practices witchcraft himself? Maybe he is flattered and loves being on the other end of stalking. It’s flattering to him?  It makes him feel better about what he is doing to me? He wants to stay faithful and have his good reputation remain intact, so he is letting his wife to do all this crazy stuff? If he is conscious that this is happening to us and he is ok with that, that’s weird to me. He is not receiving the same harassment and abuse that I am, so he’s good. Knowing all that she is up to, I have no idea why he would remain with his wife, but to each their own.  This is the most hard to believe, love triangle true story that most people have ever heard of. (Especially for those who have never believed in the possibility of magic)

You can’t quit what you have been doing, since the very start of your relationship now, L. Keep taking trips to New Orleans, to stock up on your voodoo supplies! Go to the Sedona, Arizona vortexes or maybe the one in Maui, if you haven’t been yet? Whatever that does for your relationship, I do not know? It seems very pathetic, to me. But it’s worked for you. 

If magic were not involved, I am not sure you would have held onto your winnings (property) for as long as you have. I would say, may the best woman win, but you don’t even need to be the better woman. He has no control of his own decision making, because of your astonishing magical skills. It’s hopeless for me! You win! You are going to hex me for the rest of my life, and you are going to secretly cast love spells on him, for the rest of his life! Be forewarned!