I watched an episode of Dr. Phil today about a delusional man who refuses to seek treatment and the woman who loves him. I remember when my biological clock was ticking and I really wanted to get married. You can overlook subtle red flags in that phase of life. But, man, this is over the top. Run! Break off your engagement! I don't say that because he is mentally ill, (we deserve love too) but because he cannot see that he needs help and refuses treatment. What a difficult relationship to be in!