Erotomania
Erotomania is a type of delusional disorder where the affected person believes that another person is in love with him or her. This belief is usually applied to someone with higher status or a famous person, but can also be applied to a complete stranger. Erotomanic delusions often occur in patients with schizophrenia and other psychotic disorders, but can also occur during a manic episode in the context of bipolar I disorder.[1] During an erotomanic delusion, the patient believes that a secret admirer is declaring his or her affection for the patient, often by special glances, signals, telepathy, or messages through the media. Usually the patient then returns the perceived affection by means of letters, phone calls, gifts, and visits to the unwitting recipient. Even though these advances are unexpected and often unwanted, any denial of affection by the object of this delusional love is dismissed by the patient as a ploy to conceal the forbidden love from the rest of the world.[2]
Erotomania is also called de Clérambault's syndrome, after French psychiatrist Gaëtan Gatian de Clérambault (1872–1934), who published a comprehensive review paper on the subject (Les Psychoses Passionnelles) in 1921. Erotomania should not be confused with obsessive love or obsession with unrequited love, neither of which involves delusion.
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The core symptom of the disorder is that the sufferer holds an unshakable belief that another person is secretly in love with them. In some cases, the sufferer may believe several people at once are "secret admirers". The sufferer may also experience other types of delusions concurrently with erotomania, such as delusions of reference, wherein the perceived admirer secretly communicates his or her love by subtle methods such as body posture, arrangement of household objects, and other seemingly innocuous acts (or, if the person is a public figure, through clues in the media). Erotomanic delusions are typically found as the primary symptom of a delusional disorder or in the context of schizophrenia and may be treated with atypical antipsychotics.[citation needed]
Well-known cases[edit]
In his paper that described the syndrome, de Clérambault referenced a patient he had counselled who was obsessed with British monarch George V.[3] She had stood outside Buckingham Palace for hours at a time, believing that the king was communicating his desire for her by moving the curtains.[3][4]
Parallels were drawn between this and a 2011 case where the body of a homeless American man was found on a secluded island within sight of Buckingham Palace. The man had sent hundreds of "strange and offensive" packages to Queen Elizabeth II over the previous 15 years.[4]
The assassination attempt on Ronald Reagan by John Hinckley, Jr. has been reported to have been driven by an erotomanic fixation on Jodie Foster, whom Hinckley was attempting to impress.[3]
Late night TV entertainer David Letterman and former astronaut Story Musgrave were both stalked by Margaret Mary Ray, who suffered from erotomania.[5][6]
History[edit]
Early references to the condition can be found in the work of Hippocrates, Erasistratus, Plutarch and Galen.[citation needed] In the psychiatric literature it was first referred to in 1623 in a treatise by Jacques Ferrand (Maladie d'amour ou Mélancolie érotique) and has been variously called, "erotic paranoia" and "erotic self-referent delusions" until the common usage of the terms erotomania and de Clérambault's syndrome.
G. E. Berrios and N. Kennedy outlined in 'Erotomania: a conceptual history' (2002)[7] several periods of history through which the concept of erotomania has changed considerably:
- Classical times – early eighteenth century: General disease caused by unrequited love
- Early eighteenth – beginning nineteenth century: Practice of excess physical love (akin to nymphomania or satyriasis)
- Early nineteenth century – beginning twentieth century: Unrequited love as a form of mental disease
- Early twentieth century – present: Delusional belief of "being loved by someone else"
Yikes! Not all people with erotomania look disheveled like the woman pictured above. LOL
***So I learned a new word today, Erotomania. I may or may not have this. I am not a stalker and certainly, not violent. I am just a confused individual. My medication helps me a lot though. Strangely, my psychiatrist never diagnosed me with this. Perhaps she did not want to embarrass me or maybe she was too embarrassed to discuss this herself. She did try to convince me that Keith was happily married because they were splashing their love all over Facebook. Realistically, the best thing to do and was forget about him and quit following them on Facebook. She was right about that. I do think I have a subtle form of erotomania. Now I have to talk to my doctor and she if she agrees. She may not be the best psychiatrist for me. I mean, one of her specialties is death of a pet. Death of a pet? I have schizophrenia, a major mental illness. I do not know if I could find a better, local doctor who specializes in schizophrenia because there are not enough schizophrenics here to carry a practice. Roughly 1% of the population has schizophrenia.
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Another look for women with Erotomania. Just kidding.
lol, i have that at some points. but it's usually small and i can shrug it off. when i'm off my meds or my illness is acting up i can get it pretty bad though - one time it turned into a disaster. it's like we personalize everything and apply it to ourselves.
ReplyDeleteThings are much better for me now that I am on a good antipsychotic but I still see him driving around town. He doesn’t even live here. I can’t trust the things I see when I am driving. I shrug it off but I don’t see this ever ending. It’s very strange.
ReplyDeletei wonder if it's spirit messing with you. i see my ex girlfriend everywhere in public. the same face, shape, and feeling of her. but i look closer and it's another person that looks exactly like her. this has been happening to me for a while now. something or someone is trying to tell me something but i don't know what. and now it's just annoying at this point.
ReplyDeletein any case it's best not to interact with the look-a-like dude. just try to figure out or contimplate why he keeps showing up.